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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 16.06.2025 12:49

How does one succeed in life?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Why was Cars 2 so bad?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Sometime ago, the Iranian Minister said that a US Navy aircraft carrier would be an easy target for 300 speed boats armed with Katyusha rocket launchers. Is this true?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Why do you think most harem anime and manga have lame male protagonists that would be considered losers and pathetic by most people?

What I need from you?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

What is your analysis of Walter White from Breaking Bad?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

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If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

What are the core beliefs of liberalism and conservatism? Can you provide a list of defining characteristics for each side?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

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Hangs out with loser friends.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

What are the different celebrity lists (A-list, B-list, C-list, D-list)? How does one become a part of these lists and move up or down in status?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Procrastinates a lot.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Has anyone shared his wife with a friend? How was it?

Making more friends is a goal.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

What is the most overrated pleasure? Why?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

That's it for today.

Can you write a letter to your first love without mentioning his/her name?

Does not procrastinate.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

What’s something you did a lot as a kid that you don’t miss now that you’re an adult?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Why do many people think that Japan is not a gay-friendly country whereas 72% Japanese support same-sex marriage (the same number as in the US)?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Ask yourself:

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.